Think of it like this, if a guy likes a girl, he keeps in contact with her. But he doesn't want to be just friends he wants to boost his ego or be in control. I THINK he’s my best friend. Its only natural to want to find out more about something we like. If a guy is into you, sure, he won’t always want talk. It may seem that this is a friend and it is just ringing for a chat. Maybe he's into you and is shy or maybe he just wants to be friends. 6 Signs He Wants to Be Just Friends - Often it is hard to make a difference between romantic intentions and friendly gestures. HOW do you know how he feels or if he’s interested in you just by what or if he texts you back. He says that ending his friendship will be betraying his own principles. At the end of the day, you might as well just take him for his word if they match up with his actions. Well now you can make your Sunday’s slightly more productive, because this video will teach you exactly how to know if a guy likes you more than just a friend. His wife is a doctor and there met worth is only 375,000. I try to teach him home some female friends have other motives, specially since he says this woman agreed to be just friends. Desmond, whom she always refers to as just a friend, is always there to pick her up when something goes wrong in her life. And if he isn't making an effort with small gestures like these, then maybe it's time to move on, and be with someone who genuinely cares. I have a couple of guy friends who I’ve known for 20, 30, 40 years – I’ve never bought any of them anything and vice versa. What he says: I don’t want to ruin our friendship. Share the does he like me quiz with your friends and help them find out if the guys that they are interested in have feelings for them. He shows if he only wants you in hookup, not more. I THINK he's my best friend. He asks for a few more minutes. acts like a boyfriend but says he just doesn't want to put a label on it or be too serious. But if he really just said what he meant he’d tell you he’s just interested in sex. He calls you "buddy" or "friend. Touching is a good indicator that he likes you. If he's not, then you'll probably be grabbing a bagel on your way home. If you look sad, he'll ask the reason why and moreover, he'll try his best to cheer you up. He's not the flirtacious type either. He calls you only late at night. He just wants someone to have fun with. “You’re only on this planet for so long,” a young Swayze says eerily as it starts before. After he begged me to be his friend he deleted me off of Instagram and deleted every photo we have had together over the last 5. he said we should be friends and if we find we are compatible enough, we make it official. He is very handsome and has an air of arrogance about him and probably thinks he can get any girl if he just clicks his fingers. He will openly stare at your body. I think I will feel betrayed if I know he’s. he asks, not entirely interested, reaching out to grab the notebook he laid next to him. im his FAN… it was not even a. So if he's pressuring you to have sex, that's because sex is the only thing he's interested in. Another way to tell he wants you back is if he’s truly interested in your life. He never tries to be alone to hang out in his free time. There are few texts just to say "have a good day" or "good night". His wife is a doctor and there met worth is only 375,000. These are just signs that he's interested in you. but not sure if it was just a moment of loneliness or actual interest. Still, it’s no secret that some of us guys, at certain points in our lives, are more interested in seeing you naked than getting to know you. Reliable, is always there to pick up the pieces or fill an empty Saturday night--and since he's a mechanic, he can fix Fancy's car, too. Is he shy/interested or a just a friend Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Is he shy/interested or a just a friend This topic contains 9 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by Anon 1 month, 2 weeks ago. As your Guy Spy into the Male Mind, I’m here to spill men’s secrets, and here comes one that irritates me to no end… the slow fade. If you are just his “Friend,” he will have no problem saying BYE. At the end of the day, you might as well just take him for his word if they match up with his actions. If they are slagging off your partner, then this friendship is definitely detrimental to your relationship. " He received a bunch of incredulous looks. How can a guy be interested in you if he is not interested in getting to know you better? Even basic things like asking about how your day was or what you did that evening, show that he cares. TIME: I spent 30 minutes for 3 days reading this week. No one wants to be labeled "just friends" when they have romantic feelings for the person, but it happens all the time. That is why most probably he already have another girl he is with or he probably switches from one girl to another quickly. Observe his body language as it speaks volumes. If you never said you were cold in the first place, and he could just tell, he probably likes you. He did want to get to know you and see how things can progress. You're just a friend. When you talk with your friend about other people who you are dating, or are interested in, is he supportive and encouraging, or does he become quiet and distant? A friend will be supportive, but someone whose emotions are clouded with the possibility of being in love will tend to have a more emotional response. Imagine what if you could make any man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you?. If you find him giving you rides, making you lunch when you’re having a busy day, picking up your laundry, or fixing your car, and he’s constantly being thoughtful, it could be he’s looking to be more than just a friend. He is a guy in my school ( a year ahead of me) and we met previously at a party and we chatted for a bit. Signs a Guy Is Interested in You Though somewhat counterintuitive, it's just what us guys do. He said he thinks someone is cute but that he wants to be able to treat his significant other out before he super settles down. If his sexual comments are about other women or women in general, it may mean that he just sees you as one of the guys. After all, he has loved you in the past. BREAKING: Mayor Pete Just Got SUED- What’s He Hiding? Posted By: Dean James August 6, 2019. What to Do If Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Get Married like you are more interested in marriage than you are being with him. But you say he’s just a friend,. So if he's pressuring you to have sex, that's because sex is the only thing he's interested in. " you can assume he's interested. One of my really good friends just got a girlfriend and I was going to tell him that day I liked him. Sure, he might one day come up to you and ask you out, but you made all the little first moves up until that point. But You Say He's Just a Friend: Parjesh periodically uses Call Reinforcements to call a Hatecoil Shellbreaker or a Hatecoil Crestrider. 6 Signs He Wants to Be Just Friends - Often it is hard to make a difference between romantic intentions and friendly gestures. He Doesn't Call You His Friend. If his sexual comments are about other women or women in general, it may mean that he just sees you as one of the guys. He's Just A Friend - Ebook written by Mary B. Rationalizing the Emotional Affair as ‘Just Friends’ 57 Comments by Linda and Doug We often hear from readers how their spouses are rationalizing the emotional affair that they’re having as nothing but a friendship, or a business relationship or some other innocent type of relationship. When your husband is lying about cheating, he’ll turn away from you – and you know he’s cheating. When a male friend zones a female, it does not usually mean the same thing as when a woman friend zones a man. He tries to hook you up with his friends. He swore they were just friends, that he needed someone to talk to. But there’s just one problem with what occurred at the rally in Manchester: It was a supporter, not a protester, who suffered Trump. A man who is extra thoughtful may go above and beyond to show you how much he cares about you, and that he is interested in being more than just friends. I try to teach him home some female friends have other motives, specially since he says this woman agreed to be just friends. He always says you have such a great friendship – He keeps on playing the friend card. When it comes to dating, it can be difficult to know if someone really likes you or if they just see you as a friend. How to tell if a Taurus man likes you? Are you looking for signs to tell if a Taurus guy likes you or not? Is he interested or he may just be sending mixed signals to confuse you! Discover the 88 signs that he's actually interested in you. And, the only time he gets a new shirt is when my mom goes out and buys one for him without his knowledge! He just doesn’t like spending frivolously at all. He'll answer or at the very least, call you back the moment he sees you're trying to reach him. His excuses don't sound right More often than not he will invent some reasons for being with you, or walking past you just to see you. 6 Signs He’s Doing A Slow Disappearing Act. He and she are friends with benefits for over a year. 5 Signs he likes you more than a friend. He didn't even know who the supposed victim was, so he just maintained a policy of never talking to any woman, ever. He’ll initiate conversations even if it is just saying a hi. That way you will be ready and if and when you want to be with a REAL MAN vs. If he isn't doing this with you then he may just want to be friends. It's also safe to assume that he's lied and said he's hungry even though he just ate dinner. Find out what he really wants to say when he says you're just "friends. I promise to get a new mic. If he was really interested, he would text you during the day and not just after. it was wonderful. He's not interested. The caveat to that is if you are co-workers and possibly meet up for lunch occasionally. Just out of curiousity curiosity suppose he doesn't tell you he's not interested but instead just goes to someone else but still wants to be friends. He helped me out a lot in my career, introduced me to a lot of his friends, became my roommate and generally made my life a lot more fun. If you are just his "Friend," he will have no problem saying BYE. That screams that you're his friend who he's looking for a woman's perspective from, rather than someone he's interested in dating. Bonus: He Tells You This is an obvious sign. If he asks if one of your besties is single, it ' s. Sure, he texts you, but if he’s not texting you very often, he probably just wants to be friends. So calling a girl ‘dude’ may seem, on the outside, like a term of endearment, but I reckon it’s a signal that he considers you one of the boys or just a cool mate to go on the piss with. Find showtimes, watch trailers, browse photos, track your Watchlist and rate your favorite movies and TV shows on your phone or tablet! IMDb Mobile site. * If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you). He doesn't just comment on the way you look. He Pays Attention and Remembers What You Say. Download it once and read it on your Kindle device, PC, phones or tablets. He did want to get to know you and see how things can progress. Jamie Spears just filed legal docs. The fact that your boyfriend still wants to be friends means he still wants you in his life. Importantly, a real man does things so well when he is in a relationship that you just have to love him and his style. Being just friends is a terrible place to be tips on how to avoid getting in it. I make the first "move" (usually text) which i don't mind, i just wish he'd call/text me first once in a while. We'll advise you on the tricks they take for every girl you just show. Is he interested in friendship or something more? Are we "friends with benefits" or does he want. Maybe he's into you and is shy or maybe he just wants to be friends. I'd hug him, nothing further needing to be said. Sassy Fancy Taylor vows to only marry for money and status. Taurus men will not likely ask for your number either if they aren't interested in you for more than friendship. In this dating advice for women, I will be writing about a common situation - Why Does He Only Text You?. No, this person is not flirting. hoseok, namjin, namjoon. "He's just a friend". Kilmeade actually said, "But he would want to do it there anyway whether he owned it or not. Well, I was wrong. Wondering if he likes you or if it’s just platonic. I say no, I am not interested I don't want to have sex. He keeps asking me if I want to have sex with him and be friends with benefits like every time he comes over. And he may even tell friends that he wants to get to know you with the intention that you'll hear about it. Taurus men will not likely ask for your number either if they aren’t interested in you for more than friendship. It's really hard to tell sometimes. You can't have a relationship without hanging out, so he's definitely just a flirt. This guy was not interested in talking to me and he just didn’t have the good manners to hide it. A man who just wants to bed you, realizes that bringing over pizza under the guise of a date won’t fly for long. Ok I dropped it. Recognising Signs That He Just Wants to Be Friends with You. I shouldn't have, I guess. He belongs to my church and I see him often during youth group. Importantly, a real man does things so well when he is in a relationship that you just have to love him and his style. so I should just call him. He’s often called up by law firms to act as an expert witness. Is He Interested? 7 Signs That Show If You Have a Chance with Him. The first signs he only sees you as a friend is being in a group is his interest. He Say She Just A Friend: 9 Signs That Your Boyfriend's Relationship With The Opposite Sex Isn't So Innocent. We've all had a crush on a guy who hangs out with our friends, and who seems to pay us little attention. From what I am getting is is constantly flirting with me when we are together, and always has his arm around me and is smiling. Most of the time, this is because you’re not quite sure if he’s into you or not. Ken rolled his eyes and grabbed the book, placing it flat on the desk. If he goes out of his way to talk to you, initiates conversation, or when you'll are on the phone, tries to prolong the chatting time, rest assured, he likes you, and not just chatting with you. Five Sure-Fire Ways To Tell He is Definitely Interested in YOU! Whether you are making eyes at some hunky guy over your latte, or on a first date with a man you think might be a keeper, you need to know how to tell if a man is interested in you. Believe me, if a guy’s interested in you, he’s not going to play matchmaker. I’m just saying. Has your best guy friend been acting a little weird around you lately, and not just because he is a bit strange? He wasn ' t abducted by aliens, he ' s probably developed feelings for you. Sometimes he even pretends he wants the same thing that you love, just to make sure that you have plenty things in common. Ok I dropped it. Just subtly let him know you’re interested too (if you are) , by returning the look, smiling etc. Dear married men: Keep your distance. He calls you "buddy" or "friend. SACRAMENTO (CBS13) — A 38-year-old repairman is behind bars, accused of brutally beating a 60-year-old homeowner after getting into an argument. After that I know he liked me so, sometime I look at him because I want to know if he really likes me or it's just a lie so I looked at him. Observe his body language as it speaks volumes. He makes everything sexual. He may like you, but in the brother/sister type of love. I said ok fair enough. I got her number and we started going on lunch dates by ourselves. Is he shy/interested or a just a friend Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Is he shy/interested or a just a friend This topic contains 9 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by Anon 1 month, 2 weeks ago. If so, there is the off chance he probably gets moves made on all the time. 9) He's been in your life forever. To Fancy, he's just a friend. Sometimes he even pretends he wants the same thing that you love, just to make sure that you have plenty things in common. I was interested in him at first and he knew that but always said I shouldn't. She fights and gets angry just like a girlfriend would. Trump insults man at rally only to learn he’s a friend. You might just as well change your relationship status on Facebook and declare it to the world! 😉 8. Once in a while your eyes will come in contact when he is ring to look at you. If he talks to you about different girls, it'll be for one of two reasons. I'm chatting with my friend Patrick, and he's telling me about a girl he recently went to dinner with. be more than just friends. I have been crazy about this Virgo man for two years now. His wife is a doctor and there met worth is only 375,000. Chivalry is so rare that it's impossible to tell if a man is flirting with you or just being friendly when he holds open the door and asks you about your day. It was enlightening, honest and fun! We got to talk about real stuff that happen in our midst as believers. If you’ve confessed your feelings for him and he comes back and tells you that he only likes you as a friend, then that’s exactly what he means. He's gone out of his way to do you pretty major favors, like drive you to the airport. Now, Fancy's about to find out that the best-laid plans will not only get her laid but also knocked up. She’s Interested and He’s Not Pursuing - Read about Christian dating and get advice, help and resources on Christian single living. Download for offline reading, highlight, bookmark or take notes while you read He's Just A Friend. But when she foolishly gets involved with a married player,. You mentioned that he stopped texting the girl he was interested in to see if she would text back. 2 days ago · He said a friend stayed over that night and tripped the alarm unknowingly when he left. Just like most women won’t really give their contact information to a man just because he seems like a cool new friend to have. The song inserts the 1968 hit "You Got What I Need" by. By simply talking a little bit louder as to drown out all the other noises around. He’ll make sure his friends and family know that you’re his girl. I've been seeing this guy since July, we go out together we go to eat, we talk everyday - all day while he at work - but now all the sudden he says he looks at as if I was just a friend and not someone to be in a relationship with. Is he just treating me as a good friend? He never talks about his gf and we don’t share anything too personal now, but weeks support to each other, but he can get abit touchy or he would stare at me. In many cases, someone may skip small talk after the first few times you meet, opting instead to dive into questions about your hobbies, likes, and availability. So, Ive posted about this guy friend of mine before on here but here I am again because I just dont get it. Obviously, if said person is spending energy trying to. I got her number and we started going on lunch dates by ourselves. We went out one night drinking and, of course, ended up sleeping together. I know what he does, who he hangs out with, when he’s feeling sad I cheer him up, I know everything personal that goes on in his head. Just because he doesn’t want to be with you, it doesn’t mean he’s blind. He like another girl even she and the another girl are great friends. that's a sure fire way to let him know he's more than just friend material. He can call you when he feels like it, see you when he wants to, and totally blow you off without ever having to apologize. She starts liking a new guy. He works there because the owner is his dad's friend and gives him random hours whenever he wants them. He is interested in your relationship past. He's Just a Friend - Kindle edition by J. One of the signs that women want to be just friends pertains to the hug. The meme circulated on social media after numerous reports suggested he was interested in purchasing the land, which is inhabited by roughly 56,000 people. If your guy can't say anything nice about his friend's girls, he's probably not interested in being tied down either. Britney Spears can travel far and wide in the United States, but her dad wants everyone to know, wherever she goes, don't mess with the conservatorship. By continuing to browse the site you consent to the use of cookies. I say no, I am not interested I don't want to have sex. Another way to tell he wants you back is if he’s truly interested in your life. And you feel like there could be more to it. Hello ladies! Wow, I really wish I found Rori months ago! I too am at the "can we be friends" crossroad. * If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you). he asks, not entirely interested, reaching out to grab the notebook he laid next to him. She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend. He is a guy in my school ( a year ahead of me) and we met previously at a party and we chatted for a bit. So I know this guy who is 2 years olders than me. He turned to the class full of teenagers, "He's just a friend. If his sexual comments are about other women or women in general, it may mean that he just sees you as one of the guys. 3 CLEAR Signs a Guy Likes You More than Just a Friend. #He initiates. How can a guy be interested in you if he is not interested in getting to know you better? Even basic things like asking about how your day was or what you did that evening, show that he cares. "Once you do it, it's just muscle memory," explained Josh Kim, a member of the MacDill Air Force Base Honor Guard. If he's not, then you'll probably be grabbing a bagel on your way home. My husband is texting another woman and said she is just a friend. and again I insist that she stop talking to him, she says that it hurts her to think that she cannot talk to him anymore and if she is not allowed to lie to me anymore that she cannot promise me that she won't have the need/urge to. Maybe he's into you and is shy or maybe he just wants to be friends. 25 Top Signs He Is Interested. If it only revolves around him, then this can be a sign that he’s a bit of a narcissist and you’re just there to provide the added ego boost for him. I THINK he's my best friend. Often times we may want to believe that a man we just met is truthful when he says “I’m totally single but have friends. But if he's texting all the time just to say hi, or coming up with excuses to call and text you a lot more than you'd expect from a normal friend, that's a huge sign he likes you. You smile, he is clearly daydreaming. Travis,is he just a friend or is he wanting more? I only ask,because he did seem interested before. If he's telling you that he likes you and it really shows in the way that he treats you, then he's definitely a guy who is worth taking a chance on. From what I am getting is is constantly flirting with me when we are together, and always has his arm around me and is smiling. Know the signs he just wants to be friends so you won't. But he doesn't want to be just friends he wants to boost his ego or be in control. Did he not realize you were clearly in a relationship? Chanyeol had gone with you to pick him up from the airport, bring him to your apartment, show him the room the two of you shared , but he was still flirting with you?. Or, it may be the best thing to ever happen and you’ll live happily ever after. He's leading you on, and he's not doing a very good job at hiding it. 19 hours ago · King Donald proclaimed he wants the next G7 meeting hosted at his Doral property in Miami Florida. If so, there is the off chance he probably gets moves made on all the time. 32 thoughts on “ Get the Guy: 7 Quick Ways To Tell if He’s Attracted to You ” It's A secrete June 28, 2017 at 6:01 pm. Im 25, and he is 29. He may like you, but in the brother/sister type of love. Does he ask about your friends and family? About where you’re living? Does he ask if you’re seeing anybody? – He’ll definitely want to know that if he wants you back himself! Does he say he misses you? If he says he misses you, that’s one of the strong. Are you wondering whether or not a guy likes you more than just a friend? In this short video, Adam teaches you the 3 ways to know if he really likes you. Bonus: He Tells You This is an obvious sign. To love-struck Desmond, Fancy is everything. So if he’s surprisingly curious about who you are, where you came from, and what your life is like, it’s a good sign that he’s not just being extra friendly – but that he’s actually interested. One of the Guys. " He'll be bummed, but it's better than stringing him along and possibly. You're just a friend. By continuing to browse the site you consent to the use of cookies. Then you become the pushover who gets to hear about the new guy all the while wishing you were him. He once said to me that I should be careful because I might just start liking him. It may seem that this is a friend and it is just ringing for a chat. My girl was over and we were talking earlier about how difficult a time it is for a woman to find a quality guy she likes a lot. The man in love, when faced with the object of his desire - you - can turn into a drooling wreck and be reduced to nonsense talk, this one sign that shows he is romantically interested in you. I was not to put words in his mouth and that yes he does like. The gentleman that wants you is going to instinctively want to prove to you beyond the shadow of a doubt he is oodles better than any other man around you. Sure, some guys are savvy enough to know that this won't deter a lot of women, but a guy who likes you will usually avoid telling you that there are other people on his plate. He says she's hot, and that she's been texting him a lot—but what should he text back?. But he tries to touch me and tries to kiss me even when i say no and push him away and tell him to stop (I don't want things to get out of hand or escalate) It just seems like he. He still initiates physical contact, and I don't just mean sex, I mean things like hugging, just finding a reason to touch me like pushing hair out of my face, kissing my forehead, putting an arm around me, playing with my hand or holding it, snuggling, touching my cheek or under my chin, stuff like that. He will touch you. He looks directly at you, and there’s just something about the way he’s looking that makes you wonder what he’s really trying to say. You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend And you say he's just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend But you say he's just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend But you say he's just a friend So I took blah-blah's word for it at this time I thought just havin. You've accepted a demotion: instead of being his all-important girlfriend, you're not placed into the role of "just a friend". In this case, he’s trying to be honest and say what he means. It feels good to you. He just liked your body. I feel so scared he is going to leave me after all I have socially, emotionally and financially put into this relationship. He doesn't want to keep you a secret because he wants everyone to know he cares about you. He will always be watching you as you pass by with your friends. He wants to know what your passions are, what you were like as a child, what you like to do with your family and friends, and what that work meeting you had yesterday was about. He's sending mixed signals and it's confusing me. If you aren’t (wo)man enough to tell him outright that you aren’t interested in him romantically, then just try and focus on how important he is to you as a friend and how you’d never do anything to jeopardize this friendship. His reservation is the same as yours –– the risk of getting shot down is huge if you really care. He said he thinks someone is cute but that he wants to be able to treat his significant other out before he super settles down. And he was good for romantic advice too. -Or he’s pretending to be your friend, but has ulterior motives. that's a sure fire way to let him know he's more than just friend material. Reliable, is always there to pick up the pieces or fill an empty Saturday night--and since he's a mechanic, he can fix Fancy's car, too. According to a new study, the answer is yes. He Pays Attention and Remembers What You Say. If he doesn't seem interested in ever hanging out as just the two of you, he probably only sees you as a friend. The first signs he only sees you as a friend is being in a group is his interest. Read More. How can a guy be interested in you if he is not interested in getting to know you better? Even basic things like asking about how your day was or what you did that evening, show that he cares. But there’s just one problem with what occurred at the rally in Manchester: It was a supporter, not a protester, who suffered Trump. He asks you about your life and makes you feel like he’s really interested in what you’re doing. So there you have it, 14 Signs He Likes You More Than Just a Friend. If you are interested in a guy, and you are showing him to the best of your ability that you are interested, but he seems to be oblivious to your romantic feelings - it could be possible that saying some of these things might be a good idea. He's probably interested in making things romantic, but he's also afraid of losing you, so he's taking the safe bet for him. Let's Just Be Friends: He Really Wants To "Let's Just Be Friends" Just because a man and woman's relationship didn't work out to how he planned then just maybe the guy actually means when he suggests, let's just be friends. But he tries to touch me and tries to kiss me even when i say no and push him away and tell him to stop (I don't want things to get out of hand or escalate) It just seems like he. He would explain and look at my friend and I would ask a question and he would answer but looking at my friend he would only glance in my direction at times. and again I insist that she stop talking to him, she says that it hurts her to think that she cannot talk to him anymore and if she is not allowed to lie to me anymore that she cannot promise me that she won't have the need/urge to. He Doesn't Call You His Friend. If he spends money on her, he’s trying to impress her. so i have a crush on this guy, let's call him jerry for now. A man that wants to be more than friends with you can't picture you with anyone but him and that's what makes him freaky jealous. If he isn’t doing this with you then he may just want to be friends. When he does leave the couch, it's to play poker or basketball with his guy friends. You mentioned that he stopped texting the girl he was interested in to see if she would text back. Britney Spears can travel far and wide in the United States, but her dad wants everyone to know, wherever she goes, don't mess with the conservatorship. It is Markie's most successful single, reaching #9 on the Billboard Hot 100 in 1990. He calls you only late at night. You never can tell. Find answers to Marriage Advice question - She says he is just a friend. We've all had a crush on a guy who hangs out with our friends, and who seems to pay us little attention. He says he loves hanging out with you and totally goes over the moon on how good you are in bed but keeps on uttering that you’re such a great friend. This may seem simple, but a man that is interested in you will call you if he has your number. Listen carefully for how he introduces you or refers to you in a group. Don't ever settle for this type of arrangement, as you're only going to get taken advantage of. You might intimate him or he might have serious fears from other situations he’s been through. She may be down on her luck, or going through a rough time and he will insist that she "has nobody else to talk to" and that he's just "being a good friend" and "trying to help her". He would explain and look at my friend and I would ask a question and he would answer but looking at my friend he would only glance in my direction at times. No one wants to be labeled "just friends" when they have romantic feelings for the person, but it happens all the time. 8 Ways to Know If He’s Just Shy or Just Not Interested You like him but he still isn’t making moves. If he can't be interested in your conversation, what makes you think he'd be interested in you? #10 Conversations only revolve around him or around you. If you play your cards right, it is possible to make him fall in love with you again. “You’re only on this planet for so long,” a young Swayze says eerily as it starts before. He’s a good friend. He shows if he only wants you in hookup, not more. So his initial actions were genuine. The singer known for such hits as "Two Tickets to Paradise" and "Take Me Home Tonight" says his fate is in "God's hands. Translate He is just a friend. Obviously, if said person is spending energy trying to. The thing is, you're clearly unhappy with it. Obviously yes because we have only been talking now for about 3 weeks. Can you help me? I’m just really confused of what to think of, if he was interested or not, am I wasting my time with him as being more than a normal friend?. The fact that he’s urging you to go out with other people just proves that he just wants to be friends. To snag a man, let him do the chasing. If he confides in you his deepest insecurities and secrets, he may be opening up to you in a way that he does not with his male friends. What kind of a relationship is this?. If he doesn’t take the time to get to know you and your interests, know about your family, your goals and dreams, he’s constantly joking around, move on! He’s not interested in getting to know you as a person. He keeps saying we are just friends… but I have met his kids, made love a number of times, and have taken care of his children, and I am in his corner a hundred percent.